To attract rich men and hold their attention a woman should be all she can be as far as beauty goes. Looking well kept and fresh will go a long way if you are not a natural beauty, as most rich men like a woman who is neat and trim. Never let him see you in over sized sweatshirts and baggy pants.
Take care to be your ultimate well-groomed and polished self when on the hunt for a wealthy man. Your look should be pretty, feminine and conservative. Avoid going for the bimbo look, with mini skirts, and spiked heels because most men will find it impossible to respect you and consider taking you seriously. Remember men tend to categorize women; and the categories are often: respectable, trustworthy and sweet, or, loose, shallow, and temporary. These very basic views can linger in a mans mind for a year or even a lifetime, so it is important to make some solid first impressions.
If you have tattoos, you should hide them as much as possible, as most rich men generally like a clean and sophisticated lady, not a biker chic.
If you are truly serious about being with a rich man you should place yourself around rich men every day. The more rich men you spend time around the more dates you will get the the more options you will have. Gear your life in a way that keeps you in the circles of the wealthiest men, and keep building upon your group. Dont put all your eggs in one basket, there are a lot of rich men out there and make sure you get the chance to be seen around as many as possible.
Once you have landed a few first dates you must follow the guidelines ofhow to win a rich man byavoiding these common mistakes.This is the time to intrigue and lure a man into your life.
After dating one or two men seriously for about one year it is time to get married. You dont exactly have to be walking down the isle after knowing a man for only one year but you should feel very secure with the idea that he wants a future with you. If you dont feel secure about he being serious with you, its time to place him on the back burner and focus on another man.
The reason for this is that it only takes about one year for a man to make a decision about you, and too many women let themselves become used for years on end while the guy strings her along. Men dont let themselves get jerked around in the same manner and will usually strike at their goals, succeed or fail, and then move on, but women will stew and be tormented until their self esteem is shattered. Dont let this happen to you! The cure for one man is another.
If you have decided to swim with the goldfish and dont know exactly where to start then you have come to the right place. The first thing you must do is place yourself where rich men go and then make yourself extremely attractive to them.
Rich men often belong to country clubs and play a lot of golf in their free time but the expense of joining a country club would put most people in the poorhouse if they could even scrounge up the initial payment. This creates a bit of a challenge for the average woman to be seen on a regular basis by rich men and therefore get the opportunity for a date invitation.
The smartest way around this little obstacle is to apply for a job at the swankiest country clubs you know of. This is a brilliant strategy in that you will actually be paid to meet rich men. You can work as a waitress in one of the cafes, or behind the counter of the golf driving range, it does not matter; just as long as you are positioned to watch, observe and be seen regularly. In no time at all you will be privy to who has the most money, who is the most generous, and who is married.
Rich men tend to feel comfortable asking a woman for a date if she is a familiar face and he has been able to have casual conversations with.
So, if you can get a part time job in a country club, do it! Also, you should learn the game of golf because it is so dear to the hearts of rich men. If you take a genuine interest in the game and are able to if not play the game, at least talk the game with rich men you will be that much higher regarded.
In your spare time you should make a point of going to the racetrack a few times per year. Yes, rich men love the horses and wealthy thoroughbred owners can be spotted and mingled with at every racetrack. Be sure to pay the extra fee for the advanced entrance. The poor people pay a general admission and the big money men go to the club house, turf club, or whatever the particular place has for the upper crust.
Some racetracks even have special days in which the rich and famous get dressed up to be seen on local news and society columns. Never miss out on the opportunity to wear elegant clothes and be seen. This could be a golden opportunity, just be prepared to pay for it.
The only way to make it from a date to the girlfriend is to earn a mans respect. Once you have landed a date with a rich man what do you do? I cant say it loud or often enough, DONT SLEEP WITH HIM! You should not do this with a man of any means but you need to be extra careful about sleeping with a rich man too soon. He needs to see you as something special if you want him to be interested in you.
When a man conquers a woman too soon he loses interest, and believe me, once you have lost his interest it will be lost forever. You cannot lure him back with sex.
That does not mean that he will not use you for sex, but he will firmly place you in the category of free sex and not someone to take seriously. Dont forget what happened toJodi Arias when she tried to catch Travis Alexander.
Jodi had shown herself to be a sex bomb early in the relationship and Travis wanted to find a respectable woman to settle down with. Once Jodi was engraved in Travis mind, he simply could not see her as a woman to spend the rest of his life with, no matter what she tried.
Make the man court you and and get to know you. The longer you hold out on the sex the more he will respect and admire you.
Rich men like sensible women. After you have dated a rich man for some time and the mystery is gone, there must be something that keeps him interested. The thing that makes a rich man feel at ease with a woman is simply how stable she is. If you dont have a life of your own there is a good chance that he will not be in a hurry to snap you up. Be sure and have a life that is not all attached to him.
If you are not going out with him you should be attending an entrepreneurs meetup, taking a class, or being social with friends. He has to see that you will not fall apart if he is not around and that you have interests in life. This will keep him interested in what you are up to. Seriously, if he believes that you are sitting at home and waiting for him to call then there is no hurry for him to pick you up.
Dont wait forever. If you want marriage you should never just hang around for years on end hoping that your man will eventually propose. You should never pressure your man early in the relationship and should be fun and easy to get along with but if you have been with a guy for over one year, you have been having sex with him and there is not serious talk about the future then it is wise to confront him. Let him know that you want a man to settle down with and that if he is not that guy then you need to move on.
He will either gain respect for your position and will let you know how important you are to him or he will let you know that there is no future with him. The best thing for you is to know ASAP and not spend years of your life hanging around.
There are plenty of other rich men to choose from.
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Thomas42 I read articles like this so I dont feel bad about being single…
Great article. I agree with your tips. Many people dream to marry rich, but they find it difficult to connect with rich people in real life because individuals are trapped by their social circles, classes and stereotype that the rich people like to be with the rich, and the ordinarys friends are all ordinary.
You mention go to the place where the rich people often go to meet them, but it needs a lot of money, time and energy.
For ordinary people, a better way to know the rich is through the online dating site. Such as okcupid or eharmony. They allows you to meet a lot of new people for free. Of course, if you want a higher quality single, you can choose a professional rich men dating site to join, it may take some expenses. So it is important to choose an effective dating site. My experience is check the review of rich men dating site at firstand then make a better choice. here is a rich men dating site review :
Remember that all the tips in the world wont do much good if people dont put them to use. So get out there and get used to asking for and getting what you want!
I agree with your tips. But meeting a rich man is hard today. Where can you find rich men if you hang out at totally different places and have different friends circles? The internet has brought you convenience.
Checking online rich men dating site is a good way.
I read articles like this so I dont feel bad about being single…
Next article , How to get the most from your rich man during the divorce, followed by My ex-husband killed himself after I left him destitute, and how can I play it for sympathy?
I love this post. So educative. Thank you! I feel like i can now conquer the world.
Please, tell me this is just a joke… I cant believe you want to sell yourself for money.
With the title alone, who would not read this hub? This is very interesting and entertaining to read. Keep it up!
Thank you Nicole. Good luck to you. Self confidence is number 1 when it comes to organizing your life and winning the man of your dreams 🙂
I love your page. You have really put my self confidence back on top.
Thank you old albion. Yes, mystery=respect=desire. And yes, I most definitely have. 🙂
Hi Glenda. tip top advice from you here. The woman should be there but say little, look but dont speak. She must not chase her rich man. She must create the desire once accomplished he will be hers.
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