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Its a typical boys night out and on our way to the movie, we walked by a couple holding hands. The woman had what I like to call a triple-take face: I looked at her three times before I noticed her boyfriend was about to hit me over the head.
Luckily for me, I was surrounded by six friends and so the worst thing that happened was a watch it buddy killer stare.
This woman was hot! Not only did she have a tight dress to show off her killer curves, she also had the face of an angel. Then it dawned on me; the chunky Ron Jeremy [famous porn star] look-a-like boyfriend didnt really have the looks to merit such a beautiful girlfriend. What was so special about him?
I did not spend too much time thinking about it until I walked by another unusually mismatched couple. As my buddies and I entered the theatre, a two hundred-pound (Im not talking about muscle), short andbaldman (imagine Jason Alexander) walked by me with thisbeautiful womanthat madeSofia Vergaralook like a plain Jane.
Okay, now things are fishy. I saw too many inequitable couples within a span of twenty minutes. As far as I know, there is no shortage of good-looking men (G-men) nor is there a high supply of gorgeous women to go around for everyone. How can beautiful women date such ugly men (U-men)? Or better yet, how can U-men land such beautiful women?
What can she possibly see in him? It must be the cash, and judging by her looks, he must have a lot it. This is probably the very first thought that goes through most G-mens minds.
This assumption cannot be further from the truth. True, having financial stability does help a man find a beautiful woman, but this is not the most important aspect. Its the combination of several traits that will help a man find the woman of his dreams.
As long as men keep reasoning that beautiful women date ugly or regular-looking men for their money, they will always miss out on opportunities to meet gorgeous women. Like my father used to say, Son, assumptions are the mother of all screw ups. Never assume anything with women unless its an acrobatic position.
If U-men dont need cash to bait beautiful women, then whats their secret weapon? What are these famous traits that will help a regular looking Joe like myself meet a girlfriend likeEstella Warren?
Over the years, U-men have developed two kinds of strategies to date beautiful women. The first strategy is called Scouting For Beauty , and involves looking for undiscovered, up-and-coming beautiful women.
The second strategy is called Impressing the Beauty , and involves impressing a beautiful woman who has no boyfriend and is sick of all the head games played by G-men. All she wants is an honest, trustworthy, fun man who can bring stability into her life.
Over the years, U-men have learned to adapt their dating skills. Just like a blind man learns to develop his other senses, a U-man relies less on his looks and learns to heighten his other traits.
The mistake most men make is to assume (mother of all screw ups) that every beautiful woman is born beautiful. In general, men have their radars fine-tuned for beautiful women dressed in sexy clothing as they ignore every other woman around them.
G-men assume that to date a beautiful woman, you have to look for a beautiful woman. This is where the U-man outwits the G-man.
While G-men are checking out the all-star women, who are already dating and usually spoiled with attention, the U-men are scouting for rookies or potential superstars. The U-man learns to spot potential beauty within a regular looking woman before G-men do.
These rookies are usually good-looking women who dont know they have the potential to be hot. They have low self-esteem, lack personal style and lacksex appeal. The U-men recognize their potential and move in.
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