I mean, beautiful girls should be able to find better guys. But most end up with jerks. Just why?

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As much of a cliche as it is, being beautiful on the outside does not make for being beautiful on the inside.

Girls who are jerks date guys who are jerks. Truly beautiful women, inside and out, date the good guys.

I like funny guy with a kind heart. Sometimes I would date a jerk, but only because he is the bad boy type, but a lot of bad boys do have hearts of gold. So I would date a mixture of a jerk bad boy who can be the sweetest guy possible at times, or, since those type of guys are rare at my school, I wouldnt want to date a jerk, but a nice guy!

Sometimes the guys girls date are at the beginning sweet. And then later become jerks. Sometimes the girl is afraid of them and doesnt want to break up with them because of that. Sometimes guys have qualities that arent good, but they do have good qualities too. I know my boyfriend can be a jerk. But he does have some good qualities. Its just sometimes people are different then they originally seem.

It goes a little deeper than just the old maxim that bad boys are attractive. They are attractive to beautiful girls for a very important reason. First you have to understand that most beautiful girls have a sense of their worth on the dating market. Because they have a sense of their worth, they want to keep their options of trading up on a boyfriend open. In this case it is much easier to date a jerk than a nice guy.

This is because when an opportunity to date a richer or more socially connected boyfriend comes along, it is easy to dump the current boyfriend because hes a jerk and has it comming anyway. They dont want to date the nice guy because they have to feel guilty for dumping them when they want to trade up. I hope this helps.

It is called the Beauty and the Beast syndrome. Women naturally want to help and feel needed. They feel the need to nurture and forgive (why we also do the majority of child rearing). They want to change him for the better and make him a good man. They also, unfortunately, forgive much more than they should. Women are biologically attracted to the bad boy image because subconciously they want a strong protective man with the ability to reproduce successfully with good results. This same type of bad boy stereotype all too often are cheaters, manipulators, users, etc…

Jerks are a challenge for girls. Girls like the drama and unpredictability. They also know they have to work hard to get praised and appreciated. Jerks know how to attack and lower a girls self-esteem to the point where these girls will do anything for them regardless of the consequence by preying on their emotions.

Not saying Im beautiful, but ive dated my fair share of jerks too.

but theyre usually too shy to do anything with me 🙁

Its a human instinct, that were attracted to be who treat women like trash. Male ego is stuck in asshole land, I know, because I am a male (not an asshole though). Women do have the ability to change that inner jerk inside of males, not saying it will be easy. Its either you hold on to them r let them go!!!!

I wonder this myself. They have so much quality to them but they end up with the loser guys who just abuse them. Maybe they think that that loser guy is actually after their hearts or some BS. Then they end up getting verbally and possibly physically abused and have the audacity to cry about it.

When its the other way around, its an even bigger mystery to me.

Its a story as old as time.Good girls always love bad boys its out of step for them.Good guys are too boring and no thrill you know what to expect witrh a bad boy you never know whats headed your way and the thrill and excitment of it all gives girls a rush!

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