Ive dated married women in the past, so I have personal experience in the art of seduction and romance.
Every heterosexual man on this earth is interested in and wants to know more about women. Some men may know more than others, but either way, the desire to continuously learn more about women, dating, and the art of good sex is universal.
This article is about how to seduce and date a married woman. Yes, folks, you have read it correctlyhow to date a married woman. If you are seriously thinking about dating a married woman, then read through my article completely and try out these tips. Once you have mastered this art, then success will be yours. And it is not as difficult as it may seem.
Any married woman, whether a career woman or a housewife, is always looking for that spark in her love life. As their husbands start to take them for granted, slowly and gradually that spark dies down. The wife may begin to feel neglected by her husband because he is not taking the time to keep the romantic aspect of their relationship going.
Once a woman reaches this point, she will be open to but very cautious about choosing another partner outside her relationship. She will need to be sure that the new man will be different from the others. She needs to know that he will be fully aware that this relationship can have no commitment, and that he is not looking to turn it into a serious or long relationship.
In reality, they both know that the relationship they are looking for will revolve around only sex. Sure, there may be some other close emotional moments there, but a married woman knows that the affair is primarily a physical one.
For men, the best places to look for these women are in workplaces, discotheques, pubs, clubs, and supermarkets. Look for a woman in a pub or a club who is sitting alone on the couch with a hunger in her eyes, looking at every corner, and sitting with a posture that is casting about for attention. One way a married woman can signal that she is looking for attention is by going out for drinks alone.
Never hesitate to approach this beautiful woman. Most men wrongly believe that an approach to an attractive and beautiful female is unlikely to succeed whereas it is the reverse. A beautiful and attractive woman will be more likely to fall for a man than an ordinary looking woman, because a beautiful woman has a greater love of the attention of men and is always on the lookout for it.
They like somebody to give them compliments and who comments on their beauty whereas their husbands take them for granted. Moreover, having the courage to approach a beautiful woman shows her that you are bold and it gives off what can be an irresistible wave of confident, masculine energy.
As a man, you should not be ashamed of dating a married woman. After all, these women are not looking for a serious and long-term relationship and their approach toward this relationship is crystal clear. Though sometimes things can get out of hand and she may become emotionally attached to you.
The decision to sleep with someone who is not her husband will be entirely her decision. There are lots of positives for her in this relationshipno commitment and nothing to answer to but her own satisfaction.
I think it goes without saying, but there are some big pitfalls to having a relationship with a married woman. While she is responsible for cheating on her husband, you too are at fault to some degree.
If being a homewrecker and ruining a marriage are things that could weigh on your conscience, dating a married woman is not the thing for you. It takes a certain kind of man with a certain approach to life to pull off seducing and dating someone who is married. Not every man wants that and thats totally fine.
Set a good impression in person over a casual lunch or dinner.
Now that you have found your match, the first tip to begin a relationship would be to go very slowly. Ask to spend time with hertwo ideas are to grab a coffee or to stop for a drink at a nice pub in the evening. You may invite her to your place, but be cautious: think of a normal reason that doesnt seem too obvious.
Never try to build your relationship on the phone or through text messages. Phone calls and text messages are alright in the beginning. However, they are meant to be used as tools to spend more time together in person. More important, never depend on phone calls and text messages exclusively.
: On the first date, your first line should be a nice comment on her beauty, eyes, hair, or dress. Women always like to have the attention of men, and are always looking for compliments. Your comments should be real and genuine. Never try to make fake comments as women have a sixth sense when it comes to this and will notice.
: You should try to show a good sense of humor. However, dont force it, wait for natural times to spontaneously showcase your funny side. Flirt with her and keep the environment on the lighter side, while also showing that you can be a patient listener. Never try to talk about yourself on the first date; your entire conversation should revolve around her. Try to know about her lifestyle, her needs, and her desires.
Do not do anything that can be misconstrued in public:
Remember that a married woman is not looking for commitment, and she is not looking to complicate her existing life. She has a family and a husband, and will not be looking to do anything in public that could come back and harm her family life. Because of this, be very aware of body language, both hers and your own. What you do in public must seem friendly, but not like a date, to an outsider. If her body language tells you that she is feeling restrained, ask if she feels comfortable where you are meeting, and if she would like to move somewhere else.
Keep in mind that a married woman who is unhappy will be looking for a man that can excite her and someone she can have a passionate relationship with. To impress a married woman, you have to provide her with that kind of masculine energy she craves.
You will have to be careful about what you do in public, so try to choose activities to do that are romantic but also a bit inconspicuous. Know what kind of social circles she hangs out in and make sure to avoid them.
The number one thing you have to do is project strong masculine energy and confidence. Act and say things with confidence and be sure of yourself and your actions. Heterosexual women are attracted to the masculine energy of men, so dont try to hide your nature as a man. Talk to her slowly and make deep eye contact as this will be a big indication to her that you mean business.
Your sense of style should follow certain guidelines. Your clothing should keep in mind the place or occasion. Never try to be a cowboy or a maverick; your attire should be attractive and should match the occasion. You also have to wear clothes that fit your body type and clothes that look good on you for your complexion. Women notice how men dress and dressing well is a signal that you have it together. Plus, dressing well can make you appear significantly more attractive which is important when it comes to impressing a married woman.
To start the conversation, try to avoid talking about yourself. You can start by inquiring about her zodiac sign and trying to know her nature. This way, if you do your homework, you can come off as knowledgeable and witty, while keeping the conversation centered around her.
Lay the groundwork, but let her be the one to initiate:
Another important thing is to convince her that shes interested in you, rather than vice versa. Be confident and charismatic. This will show through your conversation if you keep it as simple as possible, directing the conversation to what she and you have in common. This way, the conversation can serve your primary job of finding out more about the woman sitting in front of you while also showing that you are knowledgeable and interesting to her. Confidence is key. Keep telling yourself inside that you are not at all nervous; women like confident and daring men rather than somone who is afraid and on edge.
Again, one of the beauties of dating a married woman is that there are no commitments. As you start to date, set boundaries from the very beginning. For instance, you may want to say that you will never compromise her relationship with her family or spouse, that neither of you will ever try to make the relationship more serious than your set parameters, and that both of you have the right to stop the affair without any explanation at any point in the relationship. This will come as a relief and protection not only you but also to hershe will welcome the lack of commitment as a way to protect her marriage.
You may find yourself in a situation where you no longer want to keep seeing a married woman, and you want to break things off. In an ideal world, she would understand that your relationship was never meant to last, but in reality, she may feel a different way. Here are some tips to follow when you want to stop seeing a married woman.
Tell her as clearly as you can that you no longer want to continue the relationship. Be in control of the interaction the whole time and do not make it into a big deal.
This is extremely important because you have to make the break as clear as you can. Stop contacting her at all and remove her number from your phone. If she tries to contact you, ignore her. She may not take it the best, but you have to set the example that you will no longer deal with her.
You will have to make it clear to her that continuing the relationship is not going to work and that you want out.
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Hello good people, am looking for a married woman and here is my e-mail: .
Kevin…you are promoting something that causea great damage to many. Instead of perfecting and promoting the skills of seducing married women…wouldnt your life be better served promoting growth and healing of stressed marriages…? You are in a very, very dangerous situation. He that commits adultery with a woman lacks understanding, he that does this destroys his own soul… Proverbs 6:32. Turn to Christ to rescue you friend.
So some unadulterated piece of shit like you had an affair with my wife, which caused the end of my 14 year marriage and the ruination of my family. I only get to see my son 1/2 the time now because a loser like you could not keep his dick in his pants. Its been 5 years and not a day goes by when I dont think of taking a shovel to the back of the head of the scum bag who caused this. I hope you sleep with the wrong woman and some jealous husband shoots you in the face with a shotgun.
I truly hope if youre married that your spouse cheats on you.
I would love to be involed with a lonely woman. My info: Omar bin Ali, Singapoean, Indian, widower, 74, 160 cm, 61 kg. Work in Security Industry.
already done dating a married girl. it was the worst experience in my life i will want to say this to other guys a girl who isnt leaving her husband after dating you for months will never leave her husband for you..especially if she is asking for more time
I had relations with over 85 women in NYC and all but 3 were married
Great article. Yes! Married women have always attracted me ….The show some sensuality and love their shapes.
Im been talking to a coworker for about a year and a half and its just now got heated. Over the past couple months she told me, without my prodding, that she regrets getting married, that her husband was a virgin when they got together, thats shes disatisfies with life and that shes been doin it since she was 15. I reciprocated the comments about my marriage being less than satisfactory. Doesnt it seem like shes hinting for an affair? Or am I crazy? If she is Id be down but Im not sure how to instigate it. Please help!
I think the part set boundaries must be well executed & commited by both side, it covers and protects both side
Maria you are good for him and you just saying from a husband that wants.
Maria – from a husband in same situation you are helping to make this work! H
I remember talking to this man I used to chat with every now and then. He always asked people if they knew a guy he was looking for. He would show a photo of him.
Im looking for the man who slept with my now (ex) wife.
Its been 18 years but Im sure Ill go to prison (then hell) when I find him.
Im 44 and im looking for woman with good sense of human respect and one that knows the need of a man (best) no money but best sx
Hi am looking dating with married women but I am not getting womens contact..all are application charging a money..what can I do?
Hi im married but want to date my high school ex boyfrind whilst married can you help me
Many thanks to the Author,… I am battle with this kind stress some months ago,but I came across this article this morning and I know my problem is solve.
Married 15 years and would not be a good idea. Back in my younger days , a buddy I knew got killed in the bedroom the husband caught them in. Both wife and guy, boom, dead. Homeboy walks for temporary insanity. Understand this, for most men anyway, you are messing with someones wife, life and domain. I could imagine how married women and men could go for this, marriage at times can be grueling, man tells woman everything she needs to,hear, she is not getting at home because the home at the time is upside down right now due to something called life.
This is one bad joke out of the twilight zone. No never someone elses union will be violated by me. Hey its crazy to fathom anyone anyone could..
Well, nothing is good or bad, its a view point. The woman at home, a wife is a woman, if we can think of other women married or unmarried other than who we have, what if we start caring about the one who is called our wife….our life partner. If we date someone, we are allowing indirectly our own wife to start finding satisfaction somewhere else. If this is the choice, go for it, if not, understand what intel we might seek in reading another married woman, we can spend the same time understanding the woman we married with. It could make everything happier in life……key is, to understand a woman and to get into her beauty…..believe me, you will win back your partner if lost once.
As long as bending some rules can safe a marriage, a lady deserves not to be miserable if she is not getting what she wants at home, just dont get confused and keep it discreet –
My mum cheated on my dad in a manner not dissimilar to what is described in this article. Her lack of self control tore our happy family apart.
What a sickening and twisted thing to publish. Shame on the author and this website.
Been married 30 years and have a wonderful husband who understands that I need fulfillment as a woman. He is hopelessly impotent and allows me to discretely see other men for my needs. At 56 I feel like a 19 year old and have been very lucky to still look much younger. Men who are 10 to 15 years younger are my preference and I insist that my guys be friends and no jealousy. This is a fantastic arrangement and every day is another exciting adventure !!
I feel same from a mans point of view. Reach out to me via my secure email
This falls in line with what Im looking for. Ive been married 20-plus years and our romance has waned. No matter what I do my wife has remained distant and uninterested in anything I do. Still, I dont want to lose my family, but am about to bust. Hookers is not the way I want to go, but this seems helpful. A mutual understanding with a married woman looking for something more.
How do you know if a marrie women is in to you
I am a married woman looking to find a guy on the side to date. Answering some of these questions
1.) Why not get a divorce? When you get married, you dont go into it saying Lets have things go bad. Most women in a bad relationship will divorce, but a lot of us end up in zombie relationships, were things arent dead, but arent alive either. You have talked, you have tried, you have done all the regular things people tell you are supposed to work, and your husband lays on the couch and watches TV and ignores you.
You think about leaving, but you have kids who need a home, community property, and the crazy hope that one day your original love will finally wake up and pull their head out of their a$$. But you also know they never will. So you can only try other options.
2.) Why is it unthinkable for two people who have mutual, reasonable needs to help each other out? You dont need bullet proof anything. Hubby is not getting off the couch for me. He is already not sleeping with me, which is why I am here. If he finds out, Im the one who has to deal with it. So chill.
3.) Where is my moral compass? Well, yes I vowed to love honor and cherish, but hubby also vowed to be there for me and be my spiritual, emotional and sexual food if I kept myself to him. When you cut off the food, dont blame me if I eventually, finally get hungry and look elsewhere to find a way to survive and remember what it feels like to have a guy touch me. We ladies arent looking for a guy party -We just need one healthy guy who is willing to be fun and keep his mouth shut in exchange for a nice woman who isnt going to pressure him into something he doesnt want.
What kind of article is this it should be called EVIL or player – what kind of author are you trying to encourage people to commit INFEDELITY? are you working for ASHLEY ….website? that was shut down years ago? Life is too short, have an affair this is unacceptable. Instead of guiding people to NOT put themselves in that situation. This type of article is what wrong with the society and so many family ends up falling apart.
Please dont listen to this article – it teaches people to do the wrong thing. if you are a wise person you would know better. This is wrong.
What type of bullet proof underwear to buy? Should I increase my life insurance?
When Im caught will the husband kill me quickly, or refuse to let me die no matter how much I beg him?
Dating a married women, there are much less painful ways of committing suicide.
Love to meet a wonderful woman who is badly in need of love
yes I agree but I have different experience. One day I got a telephone number from street with home adress. I keep the number with me for 2 weeks. One evening I call her and enquire about something and told her that I seen you today at some bank with green tight dress and told that you are so beautiful and well figured. She cut the phone. I tried again and again. One day she took the phone and give to here servant and told me that, dint call her because she is married. But I tried again, and told her that I cant forget her. We quarrel several time. And I give all information about me (like family, college all). At last she believe me half. We talk so much in phone and I went her home. She welcomed me but here flat windows are opened and she keep the main door too open. We talk 10 min. she was 48 and good shaped ( I see here first time). Her husband was working outstation. She lives with here 2 sons. Her husband dont care her very well or dont discuss her for any family decision. She was so upset because he is angry with her for small reason. I always listen her patiently in phone for hours. In my first visit I behave so gently.
Second time after 2 week again I visit her at her apartment. She was wearing a red gown, and looks so beautiful. She didnt open her window and I close the main door after I enter inside her apartment. She cook brake fast for me we had it from one plate. I praise her much and she brushed. I went her bed room and call her infront of mirror. She warn me to dont do any thing in appropriate. I agree and told her, I will not do anything without your permission. She came near to me. we check our height in mirror and compare. She was tittle smaller than me. we talk and I hold her waist, she didnt resist. I ask her to show her bare back. But she deny. I request much, then she agree and and open her back button. Her back color bra also open without her permission. She was agree at that moment when I open her bra. I say sorry. she was fair and back born is projected so pretty back i viewed. I didnt touch any private part. and bottom her gown and she sit on her bed. I touch her hip but she tickle much and told that she cant resist touch her hip. after 2 hour I leave her appartment.
Next week again I visited and say sorry to her waht happened last visit. She also tolad me that, she didnt sleep some night, and thought about what happen last time. Her husband not do anything like that. He switch off all light and doing everything at dark. He never watch her beauty or praise her. So she was flat. and started to cry. This time she wear skirt and white shirt. I hug her and she told me dont sex with her. She loves her husband. I told I was so desire about you. But she deny. I cant rape her because we were so close. So I kiss her cheeks and even she dint allow me to kiss her lips too. She said sorry for that. But that time I open her skirt and see big black mole near her private part. I guess this mole in our telephone discusion before. She was almost wet and told me taht she cant betray her husband. I agreed and leave her home. But stil we are friends but dint allow me sex with her until now. I have freedom on her, i think I can force her to bed. But I didnt like that. she is damn hot, but we keep this secrete relationship almost 8 years. I have full freedom but not for sex…. that is girls or some only
Great article, Im dating a married woman who Im borderline in love with and I havent even slept with her.
Its been 4 months weve hung out for short periods of times and shes expressed so much interest weve kissed passionately I even had her all too myself one time and thought we were finally going to have sex and she got cold feet she told me shes never stopped out of her marriage. I was so upset but didnt show it deep down I was fuming I thought how could we have had so much sexual build-up and not even take off her shirt. This was a month ago and since that night shes totally backed off she still talks to me and text me but Ive noticed its not the same, in the beginning she showered me with flattery and flirting conversations but since that night shes been a different person I gotta admit I really really miss her old ways.
I dont know I guess Im more in love with her now than ever, we use to talk and text every single day to now just limited text messages she may be really busy who knows, I guess I put my hopes up too high and now that shes backed off I feel like she doesnt like me anymore. This is what I get for involving myself with a married woman.
Ive been chased by four married milfs since the day I became an adult at 18.
I never did anything, I was being an ordinary guy with my own taste in fashion, music, and hobbies.
I did some research and it turns out to be that when women settle down at such a young age they tend to be unhappy with their lives. They start wishing they were our age again and sometimes even behave like we do in order to feel young again.
Everything is games until the moment they go from being bored to being horny to being emotionally attached
They were all good looking and many guys saw them as the alpha females.
I met a married much younger woman at her work place, restaurant, the first time we looked into each others eyes there was a lightning bolt along with fireworks. I was very polite and dint say anything at that time as I was star struck. The next time I saw her at her register, I said may I ask your name and she gave it to me and I said pleasure to have met you bla bla, may I introduce myself my name is bla bla. and I left. the next time I went to see her, I wrote on my phone, coz there were people behind me, I said , hi bla you are a beautiful refreshing sight. she said thank you. But I felt guilty and put my attention to another female, but it was not the same. so after a week or so I went back and saw her at night and when I look at her I cant feel my face. she did ask me what happened to me, I said , my ex wanted to back with me but I tried but I could not do it. I told her I miss miss you, she said I miss you to and got tongue tied again. I left and waited to think how dumb that was. So I went back and told her Im sorry but when I look at you , my mind turns to jelly, there are things want to ask you but I cant seem to get it out. I said see you soon, she said ok. I knew she was married as my female friend works there and told me and has one child, so I disappeared and didnt go back for a week and a half. Being away did not change the feeling I get from her. I m going to give her a note when I see her tomorrow night. note; hi bla yes you are very beautiful . I wanted to ask you something last night, but I just got tp tongue tied. I wanted to ask you if you feel something special between us, or is it just my imagination. I m asking this because when I look into your eyes or just being near you, I do feel electricity from you that goes right to my core. I really need to know is it just my imagination and stepping over the line, the last thing in the world I would want to do is make you feel uncomfortable in any manor. I not sure I should even be asking you this, so please forgive me for asking, but I really would like to know. you can give me a piece of paper with one word, yes for, Its my imagination, or no its not my imagination. If it is yes I will leave you alone no questions asked.
That sounds more difficult than dating regularly. In fact, all of this is steps to dating an unmarried girl, but with the addition of having to keep it secret and hope her husband doesnt kick the snot out of you. Way more difficult to tango with a married woman.
I am married by the way so take your best shot. You wont get anywhere because I have more confudence that going out and having a drink by myself hoping some douchebag strikes up conversation.
I so agree with Albert…Where is our self-respect (both men and women)? Why would anyone give their body to someone who could care less about them as a person, and who is not committed to them? Where are our morales and our love for our families? To me, both the person preying and person cheating are equally guilty of committing adultery.
I stalked, I mean knew a women 22 years ago until I finally build up enough balls to reach out to her on social media. I never was able to land a women on my own due to low self-esteem and a very small ….. so I had only this way left to try. Why not, who cares about ruining a family. Im not a good looking guy but I studied up on the art of taking advantage of an older women when she is the most vulnerable. It worked like a charm! I just had to text, email, and call her with all kinds of flattering comments and be nice to her and I was then able to lure her into my dark world. I know there is a place in hell with my name on it. At least Ill be warm. MAG
Married women are absolutely the best. They as a whole are pleasers.
its shame ..never shoot people by stones if you have glass house
45 years on earth and never had a problem meeting interesting, attractive and intelligent single women. Why would I want to be involved with a married woman? Obviously she has no morale compass. If she is willing to screw around on her husband, she is a whore. Same goes for married men. If I got to a point where I was no longer interested in my wife, I would leave her. Most married women I know have too much self respect to have an affair, maybe that is because most of the women I know are intelligent, working women who do not depend on a man for financial support and if they were unhappy, they could just leave. There is no shortage of women on earth. Why in the hell would I want one who I know is sleeping with another man before or after she sleeps with me? No thanks, if you dont have the skill or confidence to pick up a single woman and need to prey on unhappy married woman, you have proven that you arent a very trustworthy or genuine person like you state you should purport yourself to be in the article. How about just actually BE genuine and caring and find your own woman? This is an article for men who are losers.
Being a plumber in NYC has afforded me very easy access to bored married women.
I have had relations with over 87 women in 2 years and all but three were married.
Funny they usually start the flirting and showing a lot of skin with robes that just happen to open etc.
Most are wifes of professional men lawyers /doctors CEO . CFO etc as they rather spend more time making money then taking care of their wives needs and they have no plans of ever leaving their spouses which makes it FWB
Being a plumber in NYC has afforded me very easy access to bored married women.
I have had relations with over 87 women in 2 years and all but three were married.
Funny they usually start the flirting and showing a lot of skin with robes that just happen to open etc.
Most are wifes of professional men lawyers /doctors CEO . CFO etc as they rather spend more time making money then taking care of their wives needs